A New Way to Deal with The Body Image Blues

By Jane Farrell

Researchers know a lot about what makes a woman’s body image worse, but there are few proven methods of changing that attitude.

Now, though, researchers have come up with a method that appears to work better than verbal affirmations: giving women writing exercises to address their own body.

The issue of negative body image is a common and important one, because it can lead to serious conditions such as eating disorders, depression and anxiety.

Renee Engeln, a professor of instruction in psychology in the Weinberg College of Arts and Sciences at Northwestern University, said positive body image interventions focused on telling women they’re beautiful the way they are or exhorting them to “love their bodies” are often doomed to fail.

In a new study, Engeln, author of Beauty Sick (HarperCollins, 2017), tested the effect of three specific writing exercises on college women’s body satisfaction, along with co-author Natalie G. Stern, also of Northwestern.

“We found that spending just 15 minutes writing and reviewing one of three specific types of letters to oneself can significantly increase women’s body satisfaction — at least short-term,” Engeln said, according to a news release from Northwestern.

In two of the letter-writing interventions, the focus was on self-compassion. One was a basic self-compassion letter; the other was a self-compassionate letter directed specifically at the body.

“To induce a self-compassionate mind frame, women wrote letters to themselves from the perspective of an unconditionally loving friend who knew them well, saw all their perceived flaws and still responded with kindness and acceptance,” Engeln said.

“The third type of letter-writing intervention asked women to write a letter to their body, showing gratitude for all of its functions — everything it does to help you get through every day. Relative to control conditions, all three of these letters increased body satisfaction,” she said.

In a second study, the researchers turned the letter-writing instructions into a simpler, faster writing activity that could be completed online. For this study, women wrote a series of sentences instead of a more formal letter. More than 1,000 college women completed the online study, which once again showed that self-compassion and body functionality-focused letters could improve body image.

“The letters women wrote were astounding. They were moving and inspirational; several brought tears to our eyes,” Engeln said. “Many participants asked if they could take a copy of their letter home with them. It seems that even women who struggle with body image can practice a kinder, gentler way of thinking about their body. They just might need a framework to help guide them.”

For more than a decade, Engeln has been studying cultural factors that make it difficult for women to have healthy relationships with their bodies.

“We’ve learned enough to confidently say that it’s healthier to avoid things like idealized media images of women, social media comparisons or negative body talk, but this is the first piece of evidence we can use to make a firm recommendation about a positive step women can take toward improving body image,” Engeln said.

The letters women wrote for this study were so moving that the researchers hope to create a website where women can submit letters they write to their bodies and share them with others.

“We think this could be a fabulous way to create a source of inspiration and comfort for women who have body image struggles,” Engeln said. “Of course, we also look forward to additional research, testing how these approaches can be implemented on a broader scale, perhaps through using a smartphone app.”

The findings were published in the journal Psychology of Women Quarterly.