Focus and Manifestation

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I learned far too late in life that what I focus on grows!

When I start really looking for something I usually find it.

Not always in the form that I expected, but these days I can usually manifest what I decide is a priority for me.

Why is this? Because focus leads to creativity. Finding the courage to make a solid commitment to any goal, focuses your mind and body. Because you have found a focus, your mind and body will now seek out solutions everywhere. Our minds are amazing that way!

This would suggest that if you cannot find the kind of love you seek now, you have not made the commitment necessary to achieve that goal. Why? Perhaps because you feel too disillusioned with love from past experiences.

We have all experienced abandonment and betrayal. It may be impossible to get through life without these experiences. But do you blame yourself for others’ betrayal? Did you screw up and drive that person away, or did they simply lose interest?

In most cases when love does not work out, it shouldn’t. See this as an opportunity to love yourself even more, because you are now ready to find someone SO MUCH BETTER FOR YOU!

Begin to focus on your best traits, your uniqueness and inner beauty. Appreciate how much you have to offer others.

What you focus on does grow, so grow great feelings about yourself TODAY!  If you find you need some help in this department, go read: How To Believe In Love AGAIN!

Laura Lee Carter, MA Counseling Psychology, the writer behind the popular online magazine Midlife Crisis Queen,has been helping others turn midlife difficulties into opportunities for personal change since 2007. Besides working as a psychotherapist, Laura Lee has authored a number of books and e-books on midlife transformation.  Don’t miss her new book: Find Your Reason to Be Here: The Search for Meaning in Midlife.Follow her on Twitter: @midlifequeen