Transitory

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The definition of transitory: existing or lasting a short time.

We all say goodbye to loved ones each and every day and assume they will return in the evening just fine, and by the grace of God most days they do.

We watch the news and read the newspapers and hear stories of tragedies, accidents, and storms but never think for a minute that could ever happen to us. 

When I was younger I always felt I had so much time. The days seemed to be longer, time moved slower and now suddenly it’s Friday, and before you know it seven days have passed and Friday has once again returned. 

We all are busy, but I am learning that when something is really important I have to find time to do it. The “it’s not important, I can do it tomorrow” way of thinking is something I now want to avoid. I am trying hard to make the phone calls, write the notes, send the cards and express gratitude and love to all those who matter in my  life.

I am trying to be more careful in how I speak. When I was younger, if I got into an argument I had the feeling it would fix itself in time. But now I think differently. If a negative conversation was my last with someone, it could turn out to be the worst speech of my life. Feeling I am right would then feel very  wrong!!!

Nothing is more important than family and good friends.  When it is all said and done those are the people that will guide you through pain.  Pain will happen to all of us. Why cause more of it while we have the transitory chance to love each other?

 I am continuing to be enthusiastic and find things to enjoy. If you look hard enough you can find something in each and every day to celebrate. I try to share those things to bring brightness to others’ days.

I’ve learned to take more “staycations.”  Vacations don’t have to mean an expensive trip.   The same sky, moon and stars are all around the world.  The sunset you see on the cruise can still be seen from your kitchen window.   

I am learning not to think about getting more possessions. Instead, I’m using all that time and effort on people and making life simpler for my husband.  I never forget to hug or kiss people goodbye and when I say “I love you,” I mean it from the core of my soul.

I recently read this quote:

“Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply  because you think they will always be there, because one morning you might wake  up and realize you lost the moon while counting the  stars.”

Here’s to making good choices on this precious transitory journey and looking forward to each step ahead.

Donna Ryan is the author and editor of the blog 50plusstickingtogether. To read Donna's blog, click here.